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https://www.facebook.com/pages/sungazing1 I love it when the plan comes together. When we are in the flow - the plan always rolls out in the perfect way. It may not seem so at the time but retrospectively we see the bigger picture. The AHA moment of ...Ohhh - that is why that happened! If everything is said for a reason does it affect the way you hear criticism? There is the perfect amount of time to achieve exactly what I need to achieve. Relationships last as long as they are meant to last. I will handle it. The universe will bring me that or better, ... are BFO mantra's that I remind myself of often. When we acknowledge that we are the creators of our own reality we become aware of just how powerful our skills of manifestation are. What we think about is what we get. So be very careful what you wish for. Today I've finally tuned into my health - I've had a head cold for a week or so (mental confusion and disorder according to Louise Hay ). But I've been ignoring that voice in my solar plexus telling me to SLOW DOWN, BE QUIET AND LOOK AFTER ME. A pressing deadline of facilitation tommorrow afternoon finally made me hydrate with something other than red wine, swallow the vitamins, a super spicy tom yum soup, get more sleep and resort to the steroids. If we don't learn the lesson the universe turns up the volume - or in THIS case... turns it off. In a final push to get me to listen to the screaming inside I have no voice. - Well only the croaky, husky more than sexy remains of one. And for a public speaker that is like trying to hang wallpaper with no arms. Beyond challenging. However I've learnt over time not to worry about these things. Worry is the most common form of meditation practiced by the civilised world. And it has the uncanny habit of drawing to you the exact circumstance that you did not want to attract. We have no need to worry because just maybe the master planner had a different outcome in mind anyway. My task today must be to write not talk. Like the corporate workshop tommorrow. I'm fully prepared, resources packed, well rested, nurturing myself yet still in a bubble of silence. I'm trusting that this DO learning opportunity will be perfect just the way it is... and due to an unforseen event in my clients world we have just deferred the training until next week. I now have a full day off to self nurture and heal. Thank you master planner. I am practising trusting the process, putting the thought out there of what it is that I want to achieve and remaining in the vortex certain that the law of attraction will sort it out for me in the best possible way. As Yoda said there is no try.. there is just DO or not DO. Test it out - next time you head to town ask the parking pixies to please have a parking space ready for you exactly where you need it. Believe it enough and it will happen. My kids love how this one works. Put the thought out there, no doubts, no worries and the plan will flow. We always smile thinking of the person who was dawdling along the street or lingering over their coffee having a sudden urge head back to their car and get out of that park. The only time it fails is when I forget to ask. As a child I used to think about car crashes at junctions of rural roads... don't ask me why. But I'd imagine the birds eye view of these two cars heading towards each other oblivious to the reality they were headed for yet destined to impact. It's a vision I carry in life, and it makes me very cautious at intersections especially country ones. Do you notice when the synchronicity pixies get to work on your day? At times the people and situations you run into are just too spot on to be a coincidence. When your world shrinks and the degrees of seperation become 2 not 7. Those occasions when you discover an old friend or three in an Chiang Mai night market. Or the complete stranger next to you at a random dinner party is your deceased bff's bridesmaid, spoken of often... but never before to. The head shaking moment when you realise that all the fab new friends at this weekends' 50th met you at a party your teen love took you to 30 years ago. It is indeed a small world and we are all somehow in connection with each other. D.A.R.E to believe in magic. Decide, Act, Review, Enjoy - We may not know all the ins and outs of how the energy flows from the dam to the light switch yet it does not stop us flicking on the light. Ask for what it is that you want, leave the universe to sort out the details. I used to worry a lot when a plan was not flowing, when things felt jarring. A date set and tickets booked to go away on a holiday that somehow felt like hard work. A proposal or bid for a client project that wasn't forming. Cash flow crisis or nothing to wear? A relationship or friendship that is faltering. Now I've learnt to let it go. That there is a bigger picture and generally pushing hard may brings me an outcome I regret. Events have a way of working themselves out. The hard to secure client may have required me to linger overseas away from my kids or gone bankrupt and not been able to pay. Where you focus your attention is where you get your results. At a meditation group years ago a wise crone told me that you may be wishing for a bit part in a film, while he director may have been willing to give you the lead. Because you never put the thought out there and were too attached to your outcome guess what you got? D.A.R.E. to dream big. D.A.R.E. to know that the plan will work out for the best. Trust the times your gut is telling you that something is not in integrity. My B.F.O taken from facebook today..A diamond is simply a lump of charcoal that handled stress superbly. God has two answers Yes and Not yet... If the path you are on is the path of least resistance. Stay on it. It's useful to be clear on what it is that you value. If you focus on getting more things that's exactly what you'll get and likely the debt that goes with them. If you focus on wealth over health, success over love, a beautiful face over a beautiful heart the plan will reflect exactly what you have chosen. Time is the most misunderstood dimension we operate in. We give up on goals thinking we are never going to get there. We stop pumping the pump just as the water is about to flow. Making a million by age 30 may not appear to have happened on your birthday. But when you are silent in your rocker reflecting back on life perhaps it was that seed thought the last day of your 29th year that turned into the money tree of your future. Or would have been if you hadn't thrown the baby out with the bath water, tossed your toys, spat the dummy and given up the ghost. If you would like help to clarify what it is that you value send me an email at the www.todo.net.nz contact DO page and I'll forward you a free activity to help you narrow down what it is that you DO want to attract. No obligations - free help for a free will planet. Because the magic of being human is that we have the will to be what ever it is we choose. That's why we are called human beings, not human havings or even human DO-ings. Start to create the plan you want to manifest. How would you like your life to be? Let the rest of the journey fall into place. Because life is the journey not the destination. Trust that there is a plan for you and that on many levels, possibly all - you are the master of it. Tell me what you plan to DO with your one wild and precious life - Mary Oliver , Summer Day
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I never did a day's work in my life. It was all fun. Thomas Edison Take it easy baby , take it as it comes, be a specialist in having fun - Jim Morrison "Are you having any fun yet ?" One line mantras. B.F.O's - Blinding Flash of the Obvious moments. The AHA feeling. An opportunity to sum up the essence of your experience in just a few words. To me that is the phrase ....Best said to another when you are perhaps experiencing something that is no fun at all. Particularily useful when life seems to suck the big kumara. It's a cunning reminder that we are here for a good time not a long time and are fully capable of enjoying the journey. The sort of statement we see on a bumper sticker and want to recall for life. Last millenium I was heading to a meeting with the bank manager, WINZ had cancelled a trial program for transistioning long term unemployed people into work in Queenstown. We had already committed to the office space, training room and team. Our land lord was about to change the locks if the lease wasn't paid. I had no idea how I was going to keep the business let alone my life afloat. When on the way down the mall my financial controller turned to me and said... "Are you having any fun yet?" Instantly the pressure was off, we looked at each other the stress lifted and we began to laugh or was it cry? From memory a lot of both, we had to sit tears streaming to compose ourselves into the concerned adult individuals that we knew the finance representatives would assume that we would be. And the issue was certainly and suddenly back in perspective. I can't even remember how we sorted out the rent that day but we did, the world still turned but most importantly we relaxed, we had some fun and we learnt. Learn from the mistakes of others you don't live long enough to make them all yourself. If you obey all the rules your miss all the fun - Katherine Hepburn Sick to the stomach, a need to pee, sweaty palms, racing heart. A collegue reminded me recently are all symptoms of excitement. I'd been wrestling with my anxiety after the death of three significant others in my inner circle and it was manifesting in similar displays in my middle child. Time to examine what we like to DO when we are excited. Dress for a special occasion, day dream, plan, write a journal. make, give and receive gifts, find like minded souls to share the journey. Immerse in the task, become absorbed in the moment. Some purposeful choices to re-label the state and enjoy the day, moment by second. To nurture my inner children with happy voices, hugs, bike rides, compliments, squeals of glee, baking, adding novelty, parties and fun times with friends. To walk barefoot in the icy cold river collecting stones. To look up and see the light not at the end of the tunnel but right here we we are. In some call centres there are Fun Managers. The person whose role it really is to create the doughnut day and hand out the silly hats. It's not the wank factor the cynics among you would label it as. The best pull it off with aplomb. Celebrating moments, creating themes adding value to the brand and the day. Establishing employee retention and decreasing challenging customer moments. Because every moment deserves to be a great one. As we would like to think that Buddha said... "The trouble is we think we have time." Go on I D.A.R.E. you - Decide, Act, Review and Enjoy - Then do it again.... and again...and again. One more time with feeling! Climb something, set a goal, make a plan, throw yourself off or into anything. Scare your self silly. Fascination comes from fascinare - to cast a spell. Create magic in your day. Go out feel the warmth of sunlight on your skin or eat what it is you love for lunch. Drink out of beautiful glass, tell a joke, love an animal, smile more at yourself in the mirror. Acknowledge your natural beauty - you are the oldest you have ever been and the youngest you will be in this moment. Experience your wealth - you have life. Invite a group of random friends to play tennis and drink Pimms. Ensure enough of them know you well enough to turn up in nightclub attire, and 6 inch heels. Have new racquets and balls on display but touch neither. Drink the Pimms and add champagne. Go out. Pretend you are a tennis club. Talk loudly and passionately about who has the best back hand. Stay out all night. Tell stories on the couch. Laugh hard, long and loud about who wears the biggest nana pants. When your husbands walk in from their fishing trip in the morning throw the lillies out of the vase and pretend you are drinking the water. Are you having any fun yet? |
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